过度关爱对孩子不利Too Much Care Can be Harmful to Children

Nowadays, in China, more and more family only have one child because of the one child policy. Parents are taking more attention to their children than before. With the economic condition is becoming better, parents are tend to put the best things for their children, they want them to receive the best education, hope them will be able to become the useful gift of country and society. However, i think too much care can be harmful to children.

现在在中国，越来越多的家庭因为独生政策而只有一个孩子。父母比以前更加重视孩子了。随着经济条件变好，父母喜欢把最好的给他们的孩子，他们想要孩子们接受到最好的教育，希望他们以后能成为对国家和社会有用的人。然而，我认为太多的关爱会对孩子不利。

In the first place, i would like to take an example to support my opinion. A father who recently be admitted to the same university with his daughter, he said he accompanied his daughter to study together since she was in middle school, and now they are going to the same university, which makes the father very happy. On contrary, his daughter seems not that delight, she said she had already got tired of her father’s companion, she wants freedom and independent.

第一，我想举个例子来证明我的观点。有位父亲最近和他的女儿被同一所大学录取，他说他从女儿初中开始就一直陪读，现在他们要进同一所大学了，这让父亲非常高兴。相反的，他的女儿看起来不怎么开心，她说她已经厌倦了父亲的陪伴，她想要自由和独立。

In the second place, parents like to make their children signed up for a lots after-school program, they think the more skills their children know the more useful for their growth. Children have to take art, English, piano after school. According to the overload situation, children already have too much homework to do after school; the interested class makes them have less time to relax themselves. They might have short-sightedness or depressed.

第二，父母喜欢给他们的孩子报各种兴趣班，他们觉得孩子懂的技能越多，对他们的成长越有用。孩子必须在放学后去学美术，英语和钢琴。根据现在作业超负荷的现状，孩子在课后已经有很多家庭作业了，兴趣班让他们更加没有时间去放松自己。他们可能会得近视眼，或者抑郁症。

In a word, even though the parents thought it is good for their children, but they have to consider how much pressure that the children can suffer. The best for children is to let them chose what they really want and give them some personal space.

总而言之，尽管父母认为那些是对孩子有益的，但是他们应该考虑一下孩子能承受多少的压力。最好就是让孩子选他们真正想学的，还有给他们点私人空间。