交流的艺术 Communication Arts

Recently, I have been reading a book named Communication Arts. In this book, the author Doctor Li introduces many methods to communicate with others successfully and tells readers why everyone should be a polite person. My favorite sentence in this book is “Everyone has potential, and everyone can determine your own future by developing positive psychological, mastering communication arts and showing your personality charm. In that way, you can have a wonderful life!”

最近，我一直在读一本叫做沟通艺术的书。在这本书中，作者李博士介绍很多与他人成功交流的方法并告诉读者为什么每个人都应该做有礼貌的人。在这本书中我最喜欢的一句话是“每个人都是有潜能的，通过培养积极的心理，掌握交流艺术，展示自己的个人魅力每个人都可以决定自己的未来。这样，你就可以有拥有美好的生活！“

During whole sections, this book tells us human should live in a large group, since people can’t solve all problems by their own. For that matter, human beings should learn a series of manners to deal with any situation which might happen wherever and whenever. After that, Doctor Li makes a point that people need to realize how to resolve disagreements between friends, families or colleagues. There always appears this kind of situation in social life, so it’s important to understand how to settle it. Finally he teaches us that communication techniques not only reflect in normal talk but also within body languages.

在整个章节中，这本书告诉我们因为人们不能自己解决所有的问题，所以他们是需要群居的。对于这个问题，人类应该学会不管在何时何地处理任何情况的方式。一系列的方式去应对任何可能发生的情况，无论何时何地。在这之后，李博士指出，人们需要知道如何解决朋友、家人和同事之间的分歧。总会出现这种情况，在社会生活中总会出现这样的情况，所以了解如何解决它是重要的是要。最后他告诉我们，交流技术不仅反映在正常的交谈中反映，而且也在身体语言中体现了。

In each part of the book, the author takes a large number of examples in daily life to confirm his points. These examples in daily life are easy to understand and accept.

这本书的每一部分，作者都采用了日常生活中的大量实例来证实了他的观点。这些例子在日常生活中是很容易理解和接受的。

After reading the book, I find many shortages of my communication skills. I used to lack of patience when I talk to others, even got mad at them. This was impolite and might destroy relationships between my friends and me. Therefore I would try my best to improve myself and be welcome.

看了这本书之后，我发现了我的沟通技巧中很多不足的地方。在我和别人说话的时候，我常常缺乏耐心，甚至很恼火。这是不礼貌的，可还能会破坏我朋友和我之间的关系。因此我将尽我最大的努力来提高自己，使自己受欢迎。